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>cool person comes along
>people want to interact with them in private because they want to get to know them after a good impression
>new person still feels the novelty of public group settings and para-social interactions in the thread and doesn't want to stop doing that
>eventually they start to get sick of the bad apples as the novelty wears off and they develop more meaningful friendships, leading to them having less public presence
Almost like you can easily reframe basic socializing patterns to justify your dislike for people and groups, insane stuff really