Real talk: Why're we here?

We're all discussing women online that will never actual know or discuss us. We obsess over these people, instead of growing real life connections or other online spaces where we can grow as a community. We know these people have partners and loved ones, yet we simp in an attempt to somehow get with them. I've been here for a few months, but... I don't know if this is a happy existance for anyone here.

This ain't a hate post, I geniunely wanna know why we come back here every day?