Maybe I'm gonna sound like a boomer but I genuinely believe too much love is a detriment to the development of a child. It's not uncommon for women who grow up in tight knit families like Nerissa to never ever want to leave the nest, more women than you'd probably think after getting married either insist they live in the bride's parents house or within a 10 minute drive of her parents. I could easily see Nerissa being one of those women.