Anonymous
8/20/2025, 4:24:27 AM
No.103680006
>>103679474
NTA, but don't be so harsh on yourself Filian. Just because you don't care much about random people doesn't mean you are a bad person, and definitely not because of edgy humor. The insensivity is probably mostly just autism kek, but overall being brash or "selfish" doesn't mean you are a bad person, as long as you don't try to hurt people and keep the feelings of those close to you in mind, which I get the impression Filian does. Being self centered isn't the same as being narcissistic or arrogant. Following your own path is fine, as long as you aren't purposefully treading on others and have some understanding for those you do hurt on accident, I think you are a good enough person. Maybe not a saint, but no one is, and you don't have to try and be one.
The Filian thing is a joke, the message is my serious take though.
NTA, but don't be so harsh on yourself Filian. Just because you don't care much about random people doesn't mean you are a bad person, and definitely not because of edgy humor. The insensivity is probably mostly just autism kek, but overall being brash or "selfish" doesn't mean you are a bad person, as long as you don't try to hurt people and keep the feelings of those close to you in mind, which I get the impression Filian does. Being self centered isn't the same as being narcissistic or arrogant. Following your own path is fine, as long as you aren't purposefully treading on others and have some understanding for those you do hurt on accident, I think you are a good enough person. Maybe not a saint, but no one is, and you don't have to try and be one.
The Filian thing is a joke, the message is my serious take though.