i keep having bad experiences when i hook up with people that sound like they've exactly immigrated, and that has me really conflicted
they either cancel last minute, and when we do have sex, they aren't mindful of my pain tolerance or comfort level
it seems a lot safer to select for people that "sound native or anglosphere", but that also makes me feel prejudiced :(
>>12346053 (OP)i guess advice would be... if you feel like you're not being respected, stop talking to them. it's not worth the sex, which will likely just be painful and sad. i promise
