>>12356646>gratification/validationgratification/validationi dont undestand this question tbh even when i translate it
>do you think adopting a constructive mindset and delaying, even outright denying gratification/validation from others would serve you well in the long run?adopting a constructive mindset would be nice but what do you mean by delaying
the gratification/validation should come from within not from externel sources
How much is a pat on the back and the ability to afford frivolities worth to you?
pat on the back means nothing to me at least i think it does not but what do you mean by the ability to afford frivolities worth to you