>>12368084 (OP)a sand castle is not built with long term sustainability in mind, experiences are transitory and effort is to be aimed towards things that elevate your existence to something that pleases you more than that what is
you may not control the sea but you control the boat to a degree, use the limited control you have over the chaotic ocean to chart a course towards something that pleases your will
>but it won't lastnothing lasts, until you come to terms with impermanence and transitory nature of existence you will be wrestling with things outside of your control, clinging to impermanent things and be too crippled to make a choice in anything
this too shall pass