What compels narcissists to demand attention and satisfaction from feeling above others publicly?
Why can't they tolerate being alone and anonymous? There's a certain beauty of being alone and removed from groups, liberating freedom of not caring about them that's lost on narcissists.
And when you confront them about their mental disorder, they try to shame you into going along with their self-validating delusion.
"You're just friendless and mad." Why look for friends? Why be overly social? Isn't that overly normie?
Isn't it more unique to do your own thing and not care about the pack or validation from others?

because people have more than a single context in their lives, you can enjoy doing both at different times in different places

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>>12415321
that just sounds like shallow phrasing meant to support the narcissists. it didn't even really answer the question. why be so social? isn't this a site for social outcasts? why seek social validation credit? until you've authentically separated yourself from the pack, you haven't become free.

>>12415327
I answered the first question
>Why can't they tolerate being alone and anonymous?
The other ones are things you invented in your own head

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>>12415315 (OP)
what a unique opinion you have there, buddy. here's your (You). not to validate you or anything, I just want you to have it.

why don't you just talk about this with whoever's bothering you

>>12415315 (OP)
think the wikipedia article on Narcissistic Personality Disorder could probably answer most of these questions

>>12415341
NPD:
>Preoccupation with fantasies of unlimited success, power, brilliance, beauty, or ideal love
>Believing that they are "special" and unique and can only be understood by, or should associate with, other special or high-status people (or institutions)
>Lacking empathy (unwilling to recognize or identify with the feelings and needs of others)
OP:
>There's a certain beauty of being alone and removed from groups, liberating freedom of not caring about them that's lost on narcissists.
>Isn't it more unique to do your own thing and not care about the pack or validation from others?
>Why look for friends? Why be overly social? Isn't that overly normie?

>>12415328
"The other ones are things you invented in your own head"
No, you're just deliberately not answering them. Possibly because they cause you to confront your own unoriginality and desires to be seen and validated by the pack.
Group npc mentality and normie.

>>12415329
do you have a twitter account and follow shitposting accounts on there? it sounds like you do. more sheep herd mentality

have you tried checking yhour coat pocket

>>12415315 (OP)
It is human instinct. Human are social creatures, that is how the hierarchy in the tribe is established.
There was some documentary about monkes doing the same, they mess around demanding attention when they want to go up the ladder. And eventually a bigger monke might have enough of them and kick their ass. In modern human society, the feedback of beating them up is illegal, so they continue to act like this.

This instinct is in everyone. You just like being alone because you have bad experiences and keep losing in the social game.
I hate people who act like that, but I noticed even I had similar feelings when I broke my leg. People act completely differently towards you when you have crutches, they put you more on a pedestal. Eg I extended my leg on the tram more than necessary so that people see, and they could have sat in front of me, but didn't out of consideration.
I saw this in one of my relatives too, who is completely normal otherwise. When she had a baby, she once admitted to breastfeeding in public on purpose, and she was annoyed nobody has called her out. She was hoping people would call her out, and the bystanders would come to her rescue.

everyone is a natural born narcissist and society rewards that

Narcissists don't bother me because I love seeing people like Jerry Seinfeld or (girl who was hot in 2004) attempt to cling to relevance. Imagine having 200 Porsches and you still are insecure

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>>12415499
>>12415500
dubs in dumb r9k bait thread

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>>12415508
you’re baiting lol op isn’t joking

>>12415499
I don't think thats true. I think we're inherently self-serving which is just a literal primordial essence for our survival. It takes work to become a narcissist.

Also narcissism is a high like if you think you're the best warrior ever that shit is intoxicating and will delude you into believing it. A perfect example of a narcissist is Conor Mcgregor, sure he backed up most of his shit talk - until Khabib taught him a final lesson in humility.

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>>12415493
"hierarchy in the tribe"
stopped reading there. systematically oppressed and unfree, unevolved thinking

pic-related is what humans are supposed to be according to God.

Your rhetoric is some introverted, outwardly, looking-in 2001 space odyssey kubrick reductivism. You'll never be a leader.

Social competitive games are what isolated internet nerds do. 1 head butting up against another and attempting to 1 up the other. It's silently looking to be individualistic in a Nietzschean sense but still relying fundamentally on the pack for social credit because they can't detach and become an actual unique individual.

>>12415499
That's a byproduct of apocalyptic late-stage capitalism. People selling their images for social networth. It's not how ancient humans functioned. They were more peaceful, collaborative, and empathetic even to people outside of their immediate group. Looking to "dominate" people on the internet and amass a following is a new phenomenon.

>>12415493
>There was some documentary about monkes doing the same
Why do atheists pull this shit out of their asses all the time to defend negative traits in humans. We're not monkeys and evolution is a lie.

>>12415511
dubdubs seemingly conflating npd diagnosis with the more colloquial sense of the word narcissist feels like one of the first steps of the bait to me desu

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>>12415493
>You just like being alone because you have bad experiences and keep losing in the social game.
No, I'd rather follow God. I don't like what I see in most people following a way contradistinct from how I perceive God's will for humanity. Life isn't about goals, lookmaxxing, or self-serving lounging. It's about helping your fellow man who is in need and going to the depths of suffering to help and rescue people and offer good works of kindness. Most people don't follow this in life and even those that do, only do so superficially without actually interacting with God and listening to His will for them which is to suppress your individuality and put others before yourself in self-sacrifice.

>>12415500
>>12415511
>>12415533
two same numbers.

>>12415493
people live in the mountains and don't interact with anybody. & people romanticize that. seems if that's an urge in people it contradicts the entire narrative you've built up.

>>12415515
it takes even more trial and error to learn empathy
>>12415523
again, products of their environment
>>12415526
oh, this
You’re only fooling yourself

I love being alone too, anon.

There's less noise both literally and metaphorically. You can do anything without distractions, you can do things that will help you grow, or even just watch an anime or play a video game. While in this state you can also think about yourself, others, or things with clarity. This is how people that achieve things live a large portion of their lives, Friedrich Nietzsche for example.

In my opinion people that don't do this are either just too insecure about themselves, or don't stop to think.

And also, some people call us narcissists, but so what? I think you can't achieve things without a little bit of that. Do you just live your lives, being scared of such labels?

>>12415547
they interact with the mountain
No comment on interacting with people

>>12415549
must be nice not being afflicted with mental illness hmm

>>12415549
>I think you can't achieve things without a little bit of that.
what have you achieved

>>12415550
Point still stands. People do it and people romanticize it meaning there's a baked-in desire to ditch social media, the city, and the internet, and not everybody instinctually wants to be online all the time looking for replies, likes, and comments from other people.

>>12415550

>>12415559
what is your point? The mountain is alive too and if u disagree that’s just your opinion

yeah when they ditch social media the fulfill that urge with something else
substituting one thing for another

>>12415561
sounds all fine and dandy til you realize there’s no beautiful girls in the woods

>>12415566
dubsu bring them there in a bag

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>>12415571
How will u entice a woman without a bag anon

>>12415564
"patheism"
You're wrong. & you made no comment on interacting with people because if you did, you'd have to consent to the point already made. But you'll just keep coming back bluntly trying to force everything you say as being the correct and right way that everybody thinks even though there's many people that prove otherwise

>>12415586
can’t help you if you can’t even acquire a bag

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>>12415566
You've never been with a woman that wasn't your mom. & being dependent on women is cringe anyway

>>12415594
So ignorant AND addicted, got it
well everything else is wrong too so
You still haven’t made your point lole
>>12415595
I have many bags
>>12415598
women are expensive
Ok so you depend on men

>>12415315 (OP)
narcissism isn't real lole

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>>12415315 (OP)
you're looking for validation right now, bozo

humans need social contact to be healthy, stop coping and go out to make friends

>>12415607
I don't even know what you're arguing for anymore. It just sounds like you want an epic internet win.
*puts a stamp on your forehead*
there, anon you won :)

>>12415629
reddit spacing.
you have to go back.

I crave (you)s the way op craves cock

>>12415632
I can tell u ur projecting but u wouldnt listen, cutie pie

>>12415629
>humans need social contact to be healthy
People find God in solitude. What do you have to say about monks that live alone at churches? Or ascetics that lived in the desert alone?

>>12415661
oh you're back for more!
>projecting
any other uncreative meme words to pass off for your victory lap epic winrar win, anon?

this is what I think >>>/r9k/ is like now

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>>12415553
Fucking your mom

>>12415982
new meme: lesbian kiss