>>12427533 (OP)I thought i wanted a house and i got it and i'm indifferent to it
I thought i wanted a full time job and higher pay and it made me unhappy and the money didn't make any real dent in how i live my life or anything
I thought I wanted friends but I found them tiresome and boring after several years of having many friends who like me
I thought i wanted a gf and I found relationships to be a time vampire and more stressful than just being a loner
However there have been some positive things i've gained and enjoyed
I wanted to lose weight and i lost nearly half my weight and i feel so much better
I wanted to help people and I enjoy volunteering to help elderly people from my church
Just be careful what you wish for anon, sometimes we are simply wanting what we don't have without thinking it through.