Anonymous
8/3/2025, 5:24:09 PM No.12450123
I first met this girl at work
We became good friends over our love of horror movies
She has ADHD and I have Autism so we basically get along great
I found out she had a ex girlfriend and straight up asked her what her sexuality was
She said
>I dont really know what I am I might be asexual but Im not sure I just like who I like
We became close but I didnt know her feelings towards me so when I asked her if she wanted to date she said no panicked and told me Im a great guy but she wont date me or anyone
Then I I fucked up my wording and panicked and said it was just that we hang out a ton and its a little weird and
we then had a call the next day where she told me she felt uncomfortable by my comment despite it being true and I apologized to her which she accepted and told her that I still want to be friends and Im just awkward and nervous at times and she told me she needed some space right now which I accepted
I then fucked up by contacting her for a dumb reason which I later apologized for
I then helped with a event that we planned that I couldnt back out of and despite me spending my entire day helping her and being chill with her friends she still wanted nothing to do with me
Our last talk was back in November where she got mad at me on the phone for not understanding her apparently and not getting it despite me telling her I truly care for her
She later texted me apologizing for being harsh but still wanted nothing from me anymore
This is all despite the past year of spending time together and me doing so much for her
>I contacted her months later and saying it was my fault completely just saying how I wish we ended on better terms and she still wasnt over it and told me to not contact her again despite not having me blocked
Maybe cause she cant believe someone like me actually likes her and cares for her
Maybe cause she has tons of issues and I accept her
What should I do?
I really miss her
I need to accept this and move on
We became good friends over our love of horror movies
She has ADHD and I have Autism so we basically get along great
I found out she had a ex girlfriend and straight up asked her what her sexuality was
She said
>I dont really know what I am I might be asexual but Im not sure I just like who I like
We became close but I didnt know her feelings towards me so when I asked her if she wanted to date she said no panicked and told me Im a great guy but she wont date me or anyone
Then I I fucked up my wording and panicked and said it was just that we hang out a ton and its a little weird and
we then had a call the next day where she told me she felt uncomfortable by my comment despite it being true and I apologized to her which she accepted and told her that I still want to be friends and Im just awkward and nervous at times and she told me she needed some space right now which I accepted
I then fucked up by contacting her for a dumb reason which I later apologized for
I then helped with a event that we planned that I couldnt back out of and despite me spending my entire day helping her and being chill with her friends she still wanted nothing to do with me
Our last talk was back in November where she got mad at me on the phone for not understanding her apparently and not getting it despite me telling her I truly care for her
She later texted me apologizing for being harsh but still wanted nothing from me anymore
This is all despite the past year of spending time together and me doing so much for her
>I contacted her months later and saying it was my fault completely just saying how I wish we ended on better terms and she still wasnt over it and told me to not contact her again despite not having me blocked
Maybe cause she cant believe someone like me actually likes her and cares for her
Maybe cause she has tons of issues and I accept her
What should I do?
I really miss her
I need to accept this and move on
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