Thread 12603572

Ykw? maybe it was a bad idea to post about dating advice on 4chan

>All i did was just ask about how i could help my boyfriend out since he's homeless and as his girlfriend, I wanna support him
>Instead of actually helping me, everyone just started accusing me of making shit up for clout (even though I wasn't and even posted the thread mentioned in that post upon request as proof). one of them nearly tried to get my ass doxxed over it
>if the roles were reversed, nobody would've said this shit, I know that

Here's the thread in-case any of you retards wanna read it (and if anyone out there actually has advice for me): >>33870263

>>12603572 (OP)
excuse me but who are you quoting?

>>12603573
kill yourself

>>12603572 (OP)
try this: >>>/adv/33870263

>>12603583

Thanks man

>>12603572 (OP)
so you're """18""" and you have a "late 20s-mid 30s" (actual age unknown) """boyfriend""" on discord that you want to send money to because he's homeless, even though your own family is broke af

I wish I knew how to explain the inherent power imbalance that comes with an age gap like this. it's something you cannot appreciate from your current perspective but when you look back on this in a decade you will wonder what kind of scumbag manchild would actually date (even e-date) a girl your age presently. seriously, search out women talking about dating much older men when they were younger: even when they're not overtly groomed and exploited, you'll find nothing but regrets from the women.

also, your family is real: they're a part of your life, you live with them, they support you, your relationships with them are a million times more important and meaningful than some dude on the internet who-- let's be real-- you will probably never, ever meet face-to-face. I hope you can understand why they should be your priority.

>>12603598

That's the thing: I do genuinely like this guy, idc if we've only known each-other for like a week or so.

He's a sweet guy (infact he reminds me of my ex so much to the point it's comforting in a way), and he's basically the only person atm keeping me from being an incel and shit, so naturally I don't have the heart to break up with him. I just want to stick to one guy and live my life with him and shit.

And even he's an exploitative asshole like you're saying (even though he's not showing signs he is), I wouldn't care. I just want someone I can keep in my life for once, you know?

If anything does happen between me and him though, I'll update everyone on that.

>you will probably never, ever meet face-to-face

About that: he actually said he's planning to come to Colorado soon (he has family over here either way), and idk when, but maybe I could try to see if I could arrange plans with him (if I can) and meet with him sometime.

I want to hold his hand and cuddle with him in a park tbh, after all, they do say physical touch is the strongest form of affection.

Idk, I'm just in love with this guy, and I just think that maybe if he actually stays or my parents don't ruin it for me, maybe I could finally have a future with somebody, and I wouldn't be alone anymore.

I just hope he's okay honestly, I'm worried about him. :(

(sorry for all the venting btw, just needed to get that off my chest cause it's been on my mind for a while, and it's technically relevant to the conversation and shit)

>>12603621
This site is literally full of manchildren to choose from and you pick a bum

>>12603598
Also, should mention: I'm wanting to send money voluntarily, he never asked me to send money (infact poor dude was so insistent on figuring it out himself, which doesn't feel right to me, but if he's 100% sure he can handle it on his own, i'm not gonna stop him. I wish him good luck though)

Shut up roastie

>>12603624
it was only really because he asked first, and I was looking for a boyfriend anyway, so I said "sure, why not?". I didn't even know he was homeless or struggling financially until he mentioned it while I was talking about my own financial problems (probably as a way to relate), and I even asked him "are you homeless" and he said yes, so I do know it's legit.

Hopefully I can get this job I mentioned in my thread so that I can make some money and help out (while also talking care of my problems too, obviously, didn't think i needed to clarify that).

>>12603621
you're going to wonder why you spent the time and energy (and money, potentially) on such a remote chance. why him and not someone nearby, or with a home, or remotely close to your age? I think you like the idea of a relationship more than actually having one: this guy is safe because he's hypothetical, he's at a distance. if it was real it would be threatening.
all I can say is: keep yourself safe

>>12603635

I guess you're right about that, but then again, I'm the same girl who once wasted money on a whole season of Teen Titans Go as a kid without realizing what it meant and used to waste money on soda up until food stamps got cut, so i don't really care atp.

And everyone's acting like he's guilt tripping me into this, but he's not. I guess he doesn't want me feeling bad over it since he said he could take care of it myself, but I don't want to feel like a shitty and uncaring girlfriend for not, so I say it'd be worth it in the long run anyway since I'd at least helped someone get out of a bad situation and shit.

If you're really insistent on me not spending money though, what would you suggest I do? Cause I'm not leaving him JUST because he's homeless, that'd just make me an asshole.

Fuck this whole thing's giving me a whole moral dilemma...

>>12603572 (OP)
tranny ywnbaw

>>12603663

Funny how you say that but I'm literally a cis girl lmao

>>12603668
and i have a 13 inch penis

>>12603703
proof???

>>12603661
leave him because he's like 15 years your senior and a relationship isn't realistic? I mean you can still be his friend

>>12603668
TITS or GTFO

>>12603668
AS AN AFAB NO YOU ARENT and it's SO obvious PLEASE

>>12603708

>I'm a legal adult, dating another adult
>He's not forcing me to do anything I don't want to
I genuinely don't see the problem with our relationship.

>>12603713

Explain to me how.

>>12603713
t. obvious moid

>>12603727

>"moid"
>literally talking to an obvious woman

Great call my foid, great call

extremely unethical behavior but it must be so fun getting a girl this stupid on the hook

send him what you can afford, if you fail you'll learn if you win your bound will be much stronger

>>12603572 (OP)
I don't wanna see this unfff

>>12603725
>>12603728
Who are you quoting?

>>12603730

THANK YOU, someone who gave me legitimate advice for once, jesus christ..

So, taking in your advice, I'm gonna wait till November when I start working and shit, and here's what I'm thinking based on what I currently know about the job and boyfriend's situation:

>I got told that I get paid on Fridays at around $16 an hour, so that would give me around $440 at the end of the week (I'm doing part time, and this doesn't include if I work overtime one day).
>I could give $50-100 to boyfriend (this is entirely dependent on whether or not he gets hired to the job he applied to), and still have about $300-350 left over.
>I could give $250 to pay my parent's bills and contribute to the family and shit, leaving me with about $50-100 left to save for whatever I want later.

Basically I could give my bf enough to help him out and shit, and still have enough left over for more important things.

Do you think it'd also be a good idea to pay boyfriend continuously until he's able to get back on his feet in this situation, or is it only okay to do it once just to give him a head start?

(again, this is all IF i get the job, I truly don't know if I will, so let's pray to god I do and I didn't just make two entire threads for nothing)

>>12603737

Can you stfu PLEASE???

>>12603725
>Explain to me how.
well, your facial features and structure is literally just the most masculine thing i've even seen. no female would ever let themselves go so bad that they look like that and they don't even try and fix it at all with makeup. I've NEVER seen an afab like that ever and when they're that ugly, they hide themselves, they dont proudly post themselves ANYWHERE
I'm afab, i look 7x better than you atleast and i still wouldn't post myself anywhere. stop pretending to be something you're not. hrt cant change what u were born as!

>>12603746
Excuse me, but who are you quoting?

funny thread lole

>>12603746
Give him 440 once, this will be the best for him to to start something 100 dollar each week is slow and draining process

>>12603749

>masculine ass face
Oh yeah, forgot about that.. :(

It's actually been something I've been pretty insecure about for a while (only posted my face for context), and I was hoping nobody would notice lol (I've considered getting a rhinoplasty to fix it, maybe like a button nose or something like that, just whatever doesn't look like this, but if you have advice on how to make my face more feminine (or at least fake it), i'd be happy to hear it!)

Though 2021 would've been happy to hear that I looked like a boy (I was trans male back then, I'm not anymore but still)

>don't even try and fix it at all with makeup

Fun fact: I actually did wear some makeup in that pic (some eyeliner, eye-shadow, and I think lip-gloss too), though sometimes I wear more feminine makeup if I'm going for a more girly look (I actually did a jirai kei-esque look just two days ago, just for fun and shit)

You could save 2 weeks or for that as well except parents bills give him rest, you'll do it 2 times and it's done

Your fortune: You will meet a dark handsome stranger

>>12603752

hehe werm :3

>>12603754

Yeah, maybe that could work too, but then again, I'm also struggling financially and shit, and I kinda want to make up for the time i've been a lazy ass NEET, so is $220 more acceptable?

Your fortune: （　´_ゝ`）ﾌｰﾝ

>>12603762
excuse me, but who are you quoting in the first paragraph? proper quotation is a very important part of posting etiquette

>>12603763

Actually yeah, I think that'd work just fine. Thank you so much anon!

>>12603769
except parents bills give him rest, you'll do it 2 times and it's done

>>12603572 (OP)
I am a nice guy and I am on a similar situation can I move in with you ....Yeah I do nice things like cuddling and be nice to your parents

>>12603779
Low quality bite BUT Would She Take It?

>>12603795

I would if I weren't already taken

>>12603806
I'd take you too what made you fall for him?

>>12603810

He asked me out and I said yes, and I just kinda fell in love with him after that

>>12603621 <-- This goes into further detail on what I mean if you wanna read it

>>12603779
nice guys finish last ..

Cool is he handsome too? Could you make a contract with model agency for him

>>12603832
Cry cry cryyytyyyyyyyyy

you should move in with him

You should peg him too

you should buy him a house

You should broke up with him

your parents must rly suck damn

>>12603881
Shut up

>>12603881

They do, I just wish they could actually se me as an adult instead of some helpless retard and shit.

They act like even though I'm literally 18 and high functioning, I can't consent to any relationship unless it's with some lesbo or something, which is stupid as hell if you asked me. It's like they're trying to make me a fag so that they can call themselves allies for having all gay kids and somehow have some moral power over me (???)

>>12603900
unchecked doubles on page 10

>>12603733
unchecked doubles on page 10!