>>16717548 (OP)I have an educated, capable relative who didn't have kids because it wouldn't have been financially responsible in her 20s. Ended up not having any. Now those genes don't proliferate. Could've contributed to the research or engineer base. Wasted.
In the same vein I have another relative who decided "we're going to wait for God to bring the judgement and have kids in his perfect world."
Same energy, same reasoning, same result. A religion not so slowly dying out, a self fulfilling prophecy in that poetic way that makes a comedy.
People have retarded and illogical decisions. No matter how smart in some way or specific area they can be, or aren't.
There's never "a good time" or a "secure way" to have kids. You either do it and create a physical proof of success, with risk of outliers, or you dont and "it" dies with you for certain.