>>11312582
Yeah he actually messaged me last night but I was busy, honestly the big appeal for me is that I feel kind of used, like his masculinity kind of warps everything around itself and demands my obedience. With other hookups I've often had to take more of an equal role but he knew exactly what he wanted and wasn't worried about telling me, leaving me as a purely submissive actor.

But yeah grindr is mostly trash, a big learning curve for it is identifying time wasters and learning to block shitheads, though I'm starting to get better quality matches now, got another hookup soon with a nonbinary sadist who wants to tie me up and torture me so that's gonna be fun too~