Could someone tell me why it's wrong for gays to be loud about liking men (which is amazing because men are perfect and beautiful and kissable) but you straight men literally talk all day about women, come to /v/ to spam porn, talk about your "waifus" or cry to other straigth men about how "you can't get a girlfriend becuase of da joos" and that's ok?

How come you guys having no personality beyond your sexuality is good but if a gay does the same it's bad?
Shouldn't you guys have a personality other than liking women despite never having interacted with one?