When reading your comments I really feel for you guys. Much of a man's confidence comes from the size of your dick, unfortunately. And the more insure one is, the more it's harder to catch a girl that's interested in you. The pic is mine (and it's around 8"), but it's just over 12 years ago when I was in my early 20's, since then I've gained quite a lot of weight (almost doubling it) and lost my confidence completely. But I'm losing weight now and hope I can come back to my former self and get a girl again. It would be nice...

But to everyone, as someone else said, you could always use your fingers, tongue and toys to please a girl in other ways. Not everything in sex is about using your dick.

For me the main purpose of sex is to please the girl, not myself. You've gotta be selfless. :)