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7/23/2025, 7:46:18 AM
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>A guy aged 23-24 could be able to provide for you but guys who are 20-22 might be more likely to be able to provide eventually (i.e. after graduating from college) but not immediately. How soon would you want him to be the provider?
I wouldn't expect him to do it out the gate but if it were a commitment he would make to me, and he was able to show it in small gestures then it would totally satiate that need :) I work and support myself as much as I can currently and I wouldn't expect to completely stop until things were more secure and stable. I would also value to learn skills from him to improve shared finances as well.
> are you saying that the sexual dynamic should also be based on this or do you mean something else?
I'm just saying the sexual dynamic would be organic and not forced in terms of a 'sub/dom' dynamic. Like I would typically consider myself sub but I have a bit of a bratty side, and I like to tease and be won over. So it'd be dependent on the type of relationship we had, the banter we shared, etc. Submission is sort of earned so it wouldn't be like I'd immediately just be dominated by him. Also kinky stuff is always fun to explore but I'd also just like to have wholesome missionary breeding kind of sex too.
>A guy aged 23-24 could be able to provide for you but guys who are 20-22 might be more likely to be able to provide eventually (i.e. after graduating from college) but not immediately. How soon would you want him to be the provider?
I wouldn't expect him to do it out the gate but if it were a commitment he would make to me, and he was able to show it in small gestures then it would totally satiate that need :) I work and support myself as much as I can currently and I wouldn't expect to completely stop until things were more secure and stable. I would also value to learn skills from him to improve shared finances as well.
> are you saying that the sexual dynamic should also be based on this or do you mean something else?
I'm just saying the sexual dynamic would be organic and not forced in terms of a 'sub/dom' dynamic. Like I would typically consider myself sub but I have a bit of a bratty side, and I like to tease and be won over. So it'd be dependent on the type of relationship we had, the banter we shared, etc. Submission is sort of earned so it wouldn't be like I'd immediately just be dominated by him. Also kinky stuff is always fun to explore but I'd also just like to have wholesome missionary breeding kind of sex too.
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