>women are le selectors and le gatekeepers
>women should have high standards and men should have low standards.

this is a meme that creates its own cultural paradigm the more it spreads. no, women aren't ANYTHING. internalized social behavior are not spiritual commandments. they are just as arbitrary, conditional and subvertable as the "anti-racemixxing gene" is.

men had lower standards for women because they CHOSE to do that. The same way they choose to raise their standards thanks to beautiful hentai. it's funny how alarmist retards think that's a bad thing compared to how women navigate dating.

I have a really embarrassing problem.
I really struggle to understand and accept a submissive perspective, I can't imagine having such a mindset and it has me so fucked up that I equate all sex to rape because it always feels like you're manipulating the other person and dominating them into doing something for you. Obviously this isn't the case and this mentality is not healthy and I want to change my mind but can't seem to embrace the idea of taking joy in dominating someone because I can't understand what it's like to enjoy submission. I don't know if that even makes sense but it's a problem that bothers me.