>>76356191
see thats whats wrong with yall paleskinned ass niggas is you use all the PUA bullshit

look man you gotta spend some time off the computer and disconnect from all the internet bullshit for awhile and just constantly be around people.
read books on social skills if you have to, not these youtube videos from weirdo niggas trying to get you to embarass yourself.

these best "game" is knowing yourself and being able to casually talk to people.

i don't call it "approaching" cause that suggests theres some kinda strategy and then you start overthinking and sabotaging yourself. Just think of it like you're just going to talk to people and be open and vulnerable. Rejection is part of the game but i dont even frame it like im hitting on a girl, i just casually try to be friendly and talkative, and you read the situation and take it from there.

Also the more vulnerable you are, the more people are willing to open up to you.

But that comes with just spending time around people. Get a job where you meet people. Take workout CLASSES that are social sometimes. Go outside and see whats going on in the world so you have more stuff to talk about

Yall inspired me to make an instagram reel about self-talk. Cause at the end of the day, the things you say to yourself in your head matter more than what you say to other people. Most yall niggas reject yourselves in your own minds. Most of you are not true incels, WAGMI