Become a real man. Be a Conservative. Be a family man. Be a gentleman. Talk to that woman. Court her. Marry her and provide for her. Go to Church. Quit porn. Quit videogames. Quit shows, movies, music and every form of "entertainment". Life is a struggle. Life is hard. It is supposed to be. As a man, you need to carry the burden.
Put.
In.
The.
Work.