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>Although I suppose living in the wish fulfilled means that you don't place any value in the state of the wish not fulfilled, so it kinda is the same thing.
Bingo!
You really understand how where you put your attention matters and why is easy to fail if you come from fear or hate.
It's like a water tap. If you want some water, you don't go crossing fingers and fearing the tap wouldn't give you water if you open it.
You just KNOW the tap will give you water when you open it.
It's a mundane example, but it works the same.