Why /v/ "homophobes" spend more time talking about gays and gay sex and spamming the same threads about gays than going outside and talking with women, the gender they are supposedly attracted to?

Oh... right.
https://pubmed.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/8772014/
>"Only the homophobic men showed an increase in penile erection to male homosexual stimuli. The groups did not differ in aggression. Homophobia is apparently associated with homosexual arousal that the homophobic individual is either unaware of or denies."

https://www.scientificamerican.com/article/homophobes-might-be-hidden-homosexuals/

https://www.pbs.org/wgbh/pages/frontline/shows/assault/roots/freud.html
> "The results of this study indicate that individuals who score in the homophobic range and admit negative affect toward homosexuality demonstrate significant sexual arousal to male homosexual erotic stimuli"