>>81473637

Evil and insensitive, does it matter? It seems like it would only matter to someone trying to excuse the behavior. If I called it the single worse thing you can do to someone or a minor inconvenience, it does not matter to me; It would not change my approach to fixing it or the fact that it should be fixed. So it is evil, it is bad for the avoidant and bad for their victims. Do you have a problem with that and why? What is the purpose of you saying it's insensitive, what are you going to do with that redefinition of evil into insensitive? It sounds like you're going to say it's minor so avoidants should keep on doing bad things to themselves and others.