i doubt very few idols above the age of 21 are single, most barely have to hide it as they're near-unrecognisable in public anyway, if your waifu is older than 25 she almost certainly has had a successful years-long relationship, all idols tend to "suddenly" get married like a year after their retirement after that age.
only retards like karina who went straight to the guys house alone to get some dick, or cub whose boyfriend posted drawn porn of her and bullied her fans after they were spotted together, get caught.

having to be more discreet about it only makes it more exciting for them.

how the fuck do I get a squid gf?
I cant go on like this
and dont even start with your lame 20 ex gfs trolling