>>510782257
It's not really okay to just come up and kiss a person you just met the sameday if it's not abundantly clear she wants that.
You probably do it quickly too, not moving in slowly or just staying close to her head which would give her the chance to move in too or back away because in the latter case you'd be somewhat awkward and embarrased and that is obviously worse than violating the person you just met to keep your ego and expectations happy.
I get why they stay away from you and from you not being able to see it was wrong to act like that it shows they are right.
You are being "like a woman" uneilling to admit mistake and playing the victim instead.
It's almost like maladjusted personalities, arrogance and abuse aren't something gender specific I'd say.