Hard work just brings out natural ability. If you're born stupid you'll always be stupid. Teachers are wasting their time

I don't wanna be disrespectful nor objectify the women i'm interested in rn but I know i'm just not emotionally ready for a real relationship and am horny. Is there any tasteful way to tell a woman "Hey I DO like your personality and I know you're more than a sexual object, but i'm not currently open to more than fucking each other's brains out. Does that sound fun to you?"