He is not ugly but he isn't chad either. Unfortunately you are not getting anywhere in the West if you are not Chad. I would suggest getting fit and position yourself in Asia that way he can at least leverage his uniqueness.
I feel so disconnected with most things people do. Do you know what I do? I lift weights and listen to Sam Sulek. That's the extent of the entertainment I consume. I don't even have anything to talk to people about honestly.