So there's this black girl I like. She usually wears hoodies, durags, dresses tomboyish.
I noticed when she'd get off the computer she'd throw something in the garbage, she'd sometimes glance at me.
Anyway, this middle aged black coworker told her I had a thing for her and he told me she started giggling. He claimed this was a good sign.
He did it without asking me.
After that I noticed she started wearing a wig or weave the next day.
We sometimes exchange glances, but she's never smiling so I don't know. I get nervous and I look down.
She must know I like her and am nervous. Because I probably act so strangely that it's really obvious that I avoid looking at her.
But I also feel too old for her, I was told she must be 21-26, while I'm 30.

My other coworkers told me to go for it, but I'm scared. Afraid of rejection and having to face her everyday after having been rejected. Or that I'd be a creep for going up to her.
I noticed the other black guy the middle aged one, called her pretty girl and even told her to come around and talk to me, but she didn't. But that must have been immense pressure on her.

I told the older black guy, what if she doesnt like white guys. he said dont think like that. most women dont like black guys

I really only planned to admire her from afar. But now it's been a week of her knowing she likes me and I haven't done anything. But I've seen her around for a year or two

What are your thoughts on facesitting? Do you like it?