>>533590832
It requires 2 main things. Detachment and certainty. Your success should be a forgone conclusion, and your only investment the curiosity of how exactly it will play out. There should be no "Will I get it?" or "I hope I don't hit pity". These are the doubts of those who aren't in control. Someone in control doesn't fail, they only experience varying levels of success.

That's why the desire sensor exists. When you're stressing over that waifu you want, you're debuffing yourself.