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Your main block is essentially being stuck in a trauma mindset. You feel like you won't ever be able to recover from your past experiences in order to be able to love yourself. In the past, you have been putting effort in your social relationships, which usually ended up being one sided and not reciprocated back to you. You currently have a black and white way of thinking about your self worth. It's as if you feel like you're outright worthless and there's no in between. The lesson you have to learn is that you have to be gentle with yourself and learn to be open minded with your own healing. Find different ways to increase your self esteem. Some positive influences in your life will be your friendships, which will help you inspire confidence and self love that you have been seeking. Seek out your friends to vent or go out and have fun. Your friends will let you know how much you mean to them, which will help you feel appreciated. The cards advise for you to take a different perspective of your feelings and see that there is no reason to hold on to your self hatred and instead to welcome confidence and self love.