This one is really only for the women. But I figure a bunch of angry incels will probably respond, too.
I'm an older man, currently seeing a younger, conservative Christian girl. I don't mind that she's conservative or religious. Her life is her business. But if her husband found out about us, he'd probably make life more difficult for both of us.
She sometimes voices concerns about the morality of what she's involved in. But she usually does this right before or after we do something sexual. Like her giving me a blowjob, or having sex in one of our cars.
She had a religious upbringing, but all the sexual repression that comes with that has made her kind of unstable and what I think ultimately led me to her... possibly other guys, too. I don't know.
What should I do when she voices her concerns? I don't want to be her bf, and I certainly don't want to marry her. So trying to get her to leave her husband is out of the question. I just want to keep her where she is now, but I sometimes wonder how much longer it will last.
What should I say to keep her putting out while her husband takes care of all the other duties?