>>40585541
>9 of cups
>4 of pentacles
>7 of swords

The best way to help him, is to help yourself first. He's going through his own thing and trying to fix it for him wont work. He has to deal with it himself. By you being calm and centered will create stability for him. You might be tempted to give too much of yourself, but don't. Hold your ground and crate boundaries. Protect your peace. Be emotionally smart. Now is not the time to pour your heart out and confess. By him seeing that you are ok, will make him feel ok. You have to give him space. You are the anchor