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>anger being not strength, but weakness
Uncontrolled and unmanaged anger is a weakness. Controlled and managed anger can be a strength. You can't just tell a guy like that to "read Meditations and stop having feelings, bro" and expect him to magically exchange his mother's borderline for your aspergers. He needs some kind of pressure release mechanism (or mechanisms) beyond what you or I need or he's going to continue living in a whirlwind of chaos and lashing out accordingly.
>I offered to take him to a counselor
No sane man wants to get lectured in some libshit struggle session with the implied threat of his parents drugging him to make him a compliant, soulless vegetable.