>which aspects of ABDL do you like (wearing, having your partner wear, usage, baby-related things, etc)?
Love, comfort, closeness, enforcement of baby mentality and regression. It's not sexual for me so I don't rly like how 90% of ABDL stuff is shitting yourself and staying in it or masturbating in diapers.

>how long have you been into ABDL?
for as long as I've had memories. I used to go down the baby isle to look at diapers since I was a kid

>what do you think caused you to be into ABDL?
no idea. It's just been a part of my soul and I had a fairly good childhood.

>is it a lifestyle, fetish, or a kink for you?
lifestyle, but I enjoy fetish aspects that help reinforce it like chastity cages or locking items.

>are you incontinent?
In diapers yes for #1, never for #2. Somehow out of diapers my body knows (but I do have a tiny af bladder)

>does your partner participate? is she/he incontinent?
yes, she is the best mommy ever and does the memes irl like got rid of my panties for the goodnight xl's. I truly hit the jackpot with her. Only thing to go full dreamscape is finding a third for her and go full baby247 but unfortunately I make all the money so still gotta big girl during the week