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8/10/2025, 1:50:26 PM
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I'm sure the original meaning of "fake nice" was if someone acted kind but talked shit behind your back or something, but the way /xivg/ has been using the term, it basically just means "person has any sort of boundaries and isn't my loyal follower after 2 conversations".
If you're actively trying to be kind to others, then it's not fake, learning to be less of an abrasive asshole takes time and effort, which it sounds like you're working to do, I'd argue the actual "fake nice" person is the one who keeps trying to bully you in spite of your efforts.
It's good to want to be nice to others, but being kind to yourself is important too, and it sounds like that friend is someone you're better off without.
I'm sure the original meaning of "fake nice" was if someone acted kind but talked shit behind your back or something, but the way /xivg/ has been using the term, it basically just means "person has any sort of boundaries and isn't my loyal follower after 2 conversations".
If you're actively trying to be kind to others, then it's not fake, learning to be less of an abrasive asshole takes time and effort, which it sounds like you're working to do, I'd argue the actual "fake nice" person is the one who keeps trying to bully you in spite of your efforts.
It's good to want to be nice to others, but being kind to yourself is important too, and it sounds like that friend is someone you're better off without.
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