and my friend is pansexual and we behave as if we were straight but a new student came to our grade and he is gay but he behaves like a woman and my friend and I feel uncomfortable because we don't behave like that what I want to get across is that a gender does not define your personality it does not matter if you are gay bisexual pansexual trans behave however you want but do not change your personality just because gay or something else because that is what defines our personality