4chan threads on RLM feel like they're full of people living on a different fucking planet.

his lack of confidence would clearly be an issue because she is a histrionic avoidant child of a woman, there's no great loss here.

He doesn't need to lie, fake, or change anything about himself... he just needs to find someone who is compatible. Someone who is mature enough to take responsibility for her behavior. An adult woman.

Narcissism is normal and healthy.
it's having empathy that is a de facto negative trait.