Liberalism's central problem is that there are certain things that individuals are simply not very good at handling on their own without collective assistance (forming stable, long-term relationships being an obvious example), but when confronted with this just obtusely shifting the blame back onto the individual by patronizingly explaining
>Well it's your fault :^) just bootstraps your way into figuring out :^)
Conveniently elided in most instances is that the people who do manage to "figure it out" on their own are often aided by copious amounts of money, which is why the bourgeoisie is fine with ignoring its obvious shortcomings

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