Men are most attractive in their mid 20s to 30s.

Most 40+ men are physically ugly with maybe a few good features left, the small percentage of 40+ men that are considered attractive are all less attractive than 20yo 30yo Chad's, only old women with dried up eggs think they are the most attractive.

Young women that like older guys do not think wrinkly graying old men are physically more attractive than 20,30s they are primarily attracted to their wealth/ financial security and emotional maturity.

Most men are ugly, and 95% of attractive men are ugly by 40.
Morale of the story, you should have been wealth maxing in your 20s and ignored women if you aren't chad