Pray for wisdom above all else. Even more than materialism and money. Wisdom and a relationship with God makes you irresistible to women. God ends up blessing your mind. You end up being capable of keeping up with conversation. Even around large crowds of and under pressure, you would still be able to maintain your composure.

1 Kings 10:2-3

>[2]She brought with her a large group of attendants, as well as camels loaded with spices, jewels, and a large amount of gold. When she and Solomon met, she asked him all the questions that she could think of.

>[3]He answered them all; there was nothing too difficult for him to explain.

And possibly even gaining a heightened sense of humor. People love it when you know what to say, right when they need to hear it.

1 Kings 10:8

>[8]How fortunate are your wives! And how fortunate your servants, who are always in your presence and are privileged to hear your wise sayings!

As long as you have a brilliant mind, you shouldn't need to flaunt wealth to impress a female. Wealth aught to just be the cherry on top.

1 Kings 10:13

>[13]King Solomon gave the queen of Sheba everything she asked for, besides all the other customary gifts that he had generously given her. Then she and her attendants returned to the land of Sheba.

This is why God tells you to seek first the Kingdom and the wisdom thereof. Then the riches and trinkets will follow.