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Both good points, but mexibro is wrong on this one. This would give her ammunition to get a restraining order / divorce rape you. BDSM is actually better than actually enforcing authority because of the current mode our society operates on.
Our current ways really despise reality in any form. We just don't want to see it, we rather experience things vicariously. That's why people become pet parents, why niggerball has such an appeal, why our jobs are daycares for grown ups, why men can be women if they cut their pp off etc etc.
BDSM is a dominance fetish. Women want to feel the threat, but they can't bear the fact it's real. Id you can provide for the kink, she'll internalize it better than reality itself. It sounds weird, but it's the way society works these days.
Pretending is better than the real deal because we prefer fantasies to reality and derive our values mostly from make believe shit.
Só do the BDSM thing.