>All the guys in my family
>All my dude friends
No
Would be nice if I was, but I'm not.
First hand observation is a bitch like that.
I use to have a lot of self esteem issues thinking women were judging me base on all sorts of criteria.
But I know literally all but one aspect doesn't matter to any of them no matter what they very performatively say.
After one friends short lived wedding just out of highschool everything clicked and boiled down to one singular solitary thing.
I could see the detestable pattern play out with every guy I knew again and again and again.
The numero uno thing seemingly every woman judges a guy on.
Personality means nothing.
Brains, Brawn, Beauty.
The size of your PP is of no real concern.

Do you remind her of her dad?
15% of the male population meet that singular qualification.
Are you in that 15%?
No?
Than you'll never really be with her, the thing you can rent the service of instead is called a prostitute that is leeching off you in a dramatically more transactional form of a relationship and she will cheat or leave you for someone she is actually attracted to who does remind her of her dad.