You should try playing something that isn't D&D. If D&D is a ton of fun and you don't want to then don't, but don't assume your made up opinions make sense.

Lite games requiere much less rulling because there isn't an expectation of detail and nuance, players don't expect it so they're not mad when actions have general solutions. You can even ask a player if the rulling sounds fair to them (and use that as a test to see if they'll try to push your buttons and make the game worse just to win)