They're bad. You shouldn't need people to lessen your psychological suffering.
I read this reddit post you see, twas about some chick who showed up to her friend's house cuz her grandma died.
To some, a heartwarming story, to me it seems sickeningly weak. You shouldn't need people to cheer you up in those times of sadness, if you need that kinda closeness than you're basically just a parasite.

The real way to live is by rawdogging reality, which also means accepting that solitude is truth and any illusion of connection at the end of the day is just an illusion..