If you have drug money or under the table work money and you don't give them anything if they're contentious or disrespectful they suddenly know how to behave.

If you just give up on them being honorable or virtuous with their commitments and give them their threat after they do their trick then you won't be so discouraged. A lot of you are just really crushed because you aren't cynical enough about women and Lucy keeps pulling the football from Charlie Brown.