>>510997510
I once had an Afromerican gentleman refer to me as "H.N.I.C." Suspecting that he was trying to slyly insult me, I asked him what that meant. He told me it means "Head Nigga in Charge".
I asked him to call me by my newfemname instead. Still, I internally felt SO euphoric that he gave me a title that was both non gender-specific and saw me as an ally :)