Rule for life.
Show your achievements, never the steps taken to achieve them.

Women wait at the finish line to fuck the winners, they don't care how hard you trained/worked/sacrificed to get what they think they deserve.
In fact, needing to try (which everyone does) can be an active turn off to them because it means you haven't made it yet.
Conceals your efforts to make your results appear effortless.

It's a rough game but you have to fight psychopathic behaviour like this with the same brute calculation they're using against you.