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>Would your bf only be dominant sexually or would you also want him to be dominant/take care of you in other ways (financially, decision-making, etc.).
I would want a guy who can take care of himself and is pretty independent, and can financially support me in a traditional way. I don't want to be a 'mommy' or anything, it's more so the dynamic of I guess being an authority in terms of like emotional physical comfort and stuff. Feeling like I can comfort him and be there for him, having a sort of sibling energy where we playfight and tease each other. I guess in all other aspects I'd want it to be kind of traditional.

>What would you want your bf to be like?
I would say that it matters to me that I'm dating someone who takes a bit of pride in their appearance and health. Again I don't want to be a mommy telling my boyfriend to do the laundry properly or whatever, or to shower lol.
I'm short so height doesn't really bother me at all. In fact sometimes I prefer a guy who's a bit on the shorter side.
I'd just want a boyfriend where he feels like a younger sibling that I'm protective over, who is like my best friend, who we can confide in each other, who can take me sort of doting over him but again without him treating me like I'm his mommy. He's easygoing and sort of confident in a way. I don't like being the one to 'take control' so to speak but it's hot the thought of a guy just being totally weak to me in a way like he always fantasised about me, the way a younger brother would for his older sister I guess. Like either of us could take advantage of that when we needed/wanted to.

t. I've never had a younger sibling, but I've always felt like I had big sister energy.