Women (or hags, as you call them) do not want to waste their time with failed specimens such as yourselves. Just because you're also old, wrinkly, and tired all the time, doesn't mean you're automatically a good match for Sae. She wants someone on her level, someone with decades of life experience too. No, she's not "used goods", you're "defective goods". Women want men that have been winning their whole lives, not eternal losers that were disqualified from the start. They want men who grew into sycamores from a humble little seed, not overgrown boys that have been dragged up by the unwavering force of time. You're not a dilf, you're not a dad, you're not even a man. You're a technicality. You somehow survived 20 years the way you are and you think that automatically earns you a hag girlfriend? Please. Every year that goes by, you fall further behind. You thought it was bad in high school? You thought that you'd catch up in no time? Think again. You've only lived a year's worth of a good life, while these hags are pushing 45. Think about it. They're more than 4 times the person you are. And you want them to be your mommy gf?! You might think this is perfect, that they can just coddle you and your pathetic ineptitude is endearing. The difference is, babies have potential. You don't.