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I've pivoted to wearing more bohemian sort of semi-formal fits and I've gotten a lot of compliments from women and men who don't know anything about my transition ("your fit is so cool", "I love how you've changed your vibe"). I'll wear things like thrifted wide-leg slacks and button ups with more femme pointy booties, and have my hair tied up nice with cute glasses.
I like to believe doing these baby steps through androgyny based on feedback is going to help me avoid the baby trans public humiliation arc and dress my age as somebody who is almost 30.