>>81740109
you can fool people into thinking you're not a virgin, and you don't even have to lie about it.
make yourself presentable and learn how to socialize.
you are your own biggest obstacle.

>>81740151
yeah obviously don't turn sex into an interrogation.
if you're good at talking you can learn their kinks before sex happens. example: i posted this picture on a instagram story recently. one girl replied to me and we had this long talk where she ended up telling me what she's into.